Q: What material is used for the soft packer?

A: Each soft packer is made from premium, body-safe silicone and finished with hand-painted detailing using skin-safe pigments for a natural, realistic look.

Q: How do I take care of my soft packer?

A: Our soft packers are made from durable, body-safe silicone, but over-stretching can cause damage. Hand-painted details may also fade over time, so we recommend gentle use and proper storage to keep your packer looking and feeling its best.


Q: Is the soft packer durable?

A: Yes! Made from premium, body-safe silicone, it’s built to last. Just avoid over-stretching, and keep in mind that hand-painted details may wear over time with frequent use.

Q: How should I clean my StealthMade packer?

A: After each use, gently wash it with warm water and mild antibacterial soap. Avoid scrubbing or rubbing. Pat dry with a soft towel and allow it to air dry completely before storing.

Q: Can I use lube with my packer?

A: If lubrication is needed, only use water-based lube. Avoid oils and silicone-based lubricants, they can break down the material and damage the finish.

Q: Why does my packer feel tacky after washing?

A: This is normal with some soft materials. Once your packer is fully dry, you can lightly dust it with a small amount of cornstarch to restore a smooth, skin-like feel.

Q: Can I use my packer for penetration or play?

A: StealthMade soft packers are designed for comfort, realism, and daily wear, not for penetration or sexual play due to the softness. While it's not built for play, it is made from body-safe material you can trust.

Q: How should I store my packer?

A: Store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight or heat. For best results, keep it separate from other items to avoid friction, dust, or damage.

Q: How do I protect the painted details on my packer?

A: To keep hand-painted areas intact, avoid dry friction and don’t scrub the surface. Gentle handling and proper storage will help preserve the look.

Q: What are your products made of?

A: Our packers are made with high-quality, body-safe, medical grade silicone materials designed for softness, flexibility, and durability. Unlike other packers, we hand-paint detailing using skin-safe pigments for a natural, realistic look

Q: Is there an odor?

A: No, not at all. Completely odor free.

Q: Are your products hypoallergenic?

A: Yes. We use body-safe silicone materials that are non-toxic and skin-friendly. If you have specific allergies, please reach out before ordering.

Q: Can I wear this in the shower, gym, or during sleep?

A: Our packers are water-resistant and safe for extended wear. Be sure to avoid exposing your packer to extremely hot water or direct heat sources, as high temperatures may affect the material’s texture or durability.

Q: How do I choose the right size apparel, packer or harness?

A: We provide a sizing guide on each product page. If you need extra help, feel free to reach out for personalized suggestions.

Q: Do your packers work with medical or body adhesive ?

A: Yes, our packers are compatible with various skin-safe adhesives, including medical-grade options like Pros-Aide, Hollister Adapt, and silicone-based adhesives. These adhesives are designed to securely hold the packer in place while being gentle on the skin. However, it's important to note that over-stretching the packer or using adhesive improperly can cause damage

Q: Do your packers work with other harnesses?

A: Yes, our packers are designed to be compatible with a variety of harnesses. Many users find that soft silicone packers fit well with strapless style harnesses, jockstraps, or packing underwear. However, it's important to note that not all harnesses are universally compatible and improper usage can cause damage.

Q: Do your harnesses work with other packers? (SteathMade harness coming soon)

A: Yes, our harnesses are designed for compatibility with a variety of packers. If you’re unsure, send us the dimensions of your packer, and we can confirm.

Q: Do I have to pay customs fees?

A: Some international orders may be charged customs duties or taxes. These fees are set by your country and are not controlled by StealthMade.

Q: Do you cover customs or import fees?

A: No. Customs fees are set by your country. Cost is not included in your order total. These charges are outside our control.

Q: How will I know if my order has customs charges?

A: Your country’s customs office or local carrier will contact you directly if fees are due.

Q: Why wasn’t I charged customs at checkout?

A: Customs fees are not collected by StealthMade. They’re only charged by your local customs office once the package enters your country.

Q: Is my order discreet?

A: Absolutely. All orders are shipped in plain packaging with no identifying labels or branding that reference the contents.

Q: Do you ship internationally?

A: We currently ship across the U.S. and limited International locations.

Q: How long will my order take to arrive?

A: Orders typically ship within 1–3 business days. Delivery times vary by location, but you’ll receive tracking as soon as it ships.

Q: Will tracking be provided?

A: Yes. We provide tracking for every order. Tracking information will be sent via email. For more information, see our Shipping Policy.

Q: Are international orders fully trackable?

A: Most are. Some countries have limited tracking once a package leaves the U.S. This depends on the carrier and destination. Contact us for assistance.

Q: What happens if I refuse to pay customs?

A: If a package is returned due to unpaid fees, the return shipping cost will be deducted from your refund.

Q: Can I return or exchange my product?

A: Due to the personal nature of our products, we cannot accept returns or exchange for hygiene and safety reasons. However, if your item arrives damaged or incorrect, we’ll make it right, just contact us within 7 days of delivery at hello@stealthmade.co (for more details, see our policy page)

Q: Do I need to be 18 or older to book a session?

A: Yes. You must be 18 or older to book this service. By booking, you confirm that you meet this requirement.
StealthMade reserves the right to request age verification if needed and may cancel any booking that does not meet this policy.

Q: Do you offer 1:1 support for transitioning?

A: Yes. As a trans man who has personally navigated medical, social, and legal aspects of transitioning, I offer private sessions to provide support, share insights, and answer questions about your journey.

Q: How do I book a session?

A: You can schedule a session directly through the services page on our website under Services. Sessions are confidential and tailored to your needs.

Q: Are these therapy sessions?

A: No, I’m not a licensed therapist. These are peer-based support sessions from someone who’s been there and wants to help others feel seen, heard, and equipped.

Q: How long are the sessions?

A: Sessions are based on the time slot you select when booking.

Q: Cancellation?

A: We get it, if you need to cancel or reschedule, please let us know in advance. We are here to help.

Q: Where should my packer sit?

A: Make sure it feels natural and sits comfortably. It should rest in the front of your underwear, centered over your pubic area.

Q: How should I wear my packer?

A: You can wear it in underwear/pouch, a harness, or with body-safe adhesive. For step-by-step instructions, check out our How to Pack page.

Q: Can I use regular underwear?

A: Yes, but fitted underwear like briefs works best for keeping your packer secure. You can also layer a harness underneath regular underwear for extra stability.

Q: Any tips for extra security?

A: Wear fitted underwear (briefs) with a harness underneath. This keeps your packer secure and maintains a natural shape